We decided to use a donor, and that it would be easiest to use someone we knew. A family member Not biologically related to me, offered to be our donor. We, and our immediate families, are being judged very harshly for this and it hurts but my family is still going to be my family. It sucks how people are twisting it to be horrible when this gift of life was so kind. It’s hard to be excited about my pregnancy at times. The donor is not around. It was my husbands idea he doesn’t care one bit. I’m the one having the hard time.