So. My boyfriend and I are just about at the 2 1/2 year marker. We haven’t had sex yet, and I’m sorry but I’m really having trouble. We have done everything but sex and it’s just not making the cut for me anymore. I can’t enjoy fingering anymore, it doesn’t do anything for me anymore. It takes sooooo long to cum now when he does it. It’s gotten to a point where I don’t want to do anything sexual anymore, because I know I won’t enjoy it but will have to fake it like I am. It’s been bothering me for a while now, I start to make myself feel like crap, but I know I’m not doing anything wrong. It’s also put a strain on our relationship, I feel like he is now using porn and avoiding any kind of sexual interaction with me. I just don’t know what to do ....