I just had my first baby three days ago c section so my mom has been helping me tremendously I appreciate everything she has done since the father of my child is on deployment I don’t have any help

But even though she is helping I started to think back when I was about 2 and 4 months pregnant she wanted me to get rid of my baby because I’m to young (21) and I decided that I was going to keep my baby and be a mother like how I wanted she made my decisions for me as a teenager but now that I’ve become a lot older she has no control at what I do so when I told her I was pregnant and going to keep him she was upset and didn’t really give me any pointers on what I should do or what I should buy like I had to look online,depend on this app and friends to tell me what I should and shouldn’t buy and do and not do

So towards the very end she started becoming more supportive telling me the things and giving important information but so very late like my son is here and there is so much stuff I didn’t even buy until she mentioned it today

Okay so let me get back to my question am I over reacting because I’m very irritated and upset and sad on the inside I’m not showing it at all I’m sad because my breast or full and I can’t express my milk it just won’t come out for some reason and I’m Irritated because my

Mom isn’t really giving me time to bond with my baby we have been home all of three days and he has been in her room he has not slept in the room with me at all and I prefer for my baby to be with me I haven’t really changed his diaper I haven’t really fed him and I’m still learning how to make a bottle and I haven’t been able to choose what he wears because she will take it off and change him in to something she likes I put him in a sack to keep him warm and quiet she takes it off and puts him in this open arm and open leg onesies so when ever his legs escape his blankets he starts to cry and scream I’m like I know it’s good for him to cry but why let him do that he is only like this because he is cold so why did you change him and I have yet to get a response and then she’s making these annoying sounds that I truly don’t like trying to get. Him to like it for some reason and then she asked me to move his bed in to her room like wtf why so I didn’t do it so she moves his swing in there and takes one of his blankets from out of the room and puts it all in her room so i noticed more and more stuff for my baby is ending up in her room so I went in there and started grabbing everything and bringing it back in my room and cleaning up and stuff since I can’t have my baby for some reason and then I told her to put him down while she’s moving his swing and everything in her room and she freaking refuses ughhhhhhhhh I’m trying to keep all of my emotions to my self but it’s starting to become hard like I want my baby it’s supposed to be bonding time for me and him not for her and him she didn’t even want me to have him but yet she’s always with him and when I put him in my room she comes in and takes him like what the f**k man I just want my baby why can’t I bond with my baby like normal mothers when I hear him cry she won’t let me come in and pick him up she will end up picking him up I’m his mother I want to comfort and soothe my child I appreciate her being a good grandmother but I feel she is over stepping ?? Possibly