In a nutshell my husband dosent want his wife to maximize her beauty ie keep my hair done and nails and a little make smfh he dont want me to maximize my beauty because he dosent want to deal with guys hollering at me and i told him im naturally pretty so thats what gonna happen he then says i sound conceited ??how? Im not letting this affect how i dress or carry my self in any way but its irritating im not going to look ragedy everyday because thats what you like and because the guys wont holler at me .. i am pretty and because i know that and voiced that to him he says im conceited and should keep my self confidence to my self. He knew what he married but he thought he can change me to fit what he like but no im going to still be my self .