I have never had a regular cycle. Due to PCOS, conception proved very difficult - three years for my boy. I have stopped EBFing my 15 month son within the past three months.

When I had EWCM middle of last month, I thought it was just PCOS. My hormones are wonky, I told myself. But then, almost 12 days after the last EWCM day . . . Bingo. AF came to visit.

Last week was O week. My husband and I BD’d twice - four days before O and the day before O. Four days after the last BD, I had cramping which lasted for about 6 hours (yesterday).

Part of my anxiety is that I want to have children close in age; the other part is the that my next pregnancy will be high risk.

I don’t know if I am pregnant, or if this is implantation cramping. I have read that implantation can occur as early as three days after O. Some accounts say 7-10, or 8-12 days. I also have never had ovulation cramps in my entire life. I did have implantation cramping with my son, approximately 1-2 weeks after the BD.

How do you know whether you are having ovulation cramps or implantation cramps? And please don’t say take a pregnancy test after your missed period; the longest cycle gap (prior to my first pregnancy) was 6 months. For all I know I am not pregnant and may not see a period for 3 months just because my body hates me lol.