Am i overreacting?

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We met on tinder. He was amazing. We met up. And hung out. Had sex...several times...and we always talked about getting together for months. And now I might be pregnant with his child. I thought this was a real thing. I went to tell him I missed him. And he said I shouldn't get too close to him. I asked why. And that's what he replied with 
I'm completely torn and confused.
I haven't even told him yet...and I'm in tears.

Accepted Answer

I know it's hard, but unfortunately, that's what most people use Tinder for. But he should have made his intentions clear from the beginning. If you weren't using condoms, you need to see a doctor for STI testing. He's most likely having casual sex with multiple partners and if he's not using condoms with you, he's probably not using condoms with other girls either.

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Tindr is for hooking up, not finding a long term relationship. Sorry to say, but that's how it goes. It's not a dating app, it's a fuck buddy app.

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Take a test. If you're pregnant then you should really sit down and talk, if not I would say to move on.

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First thing,  take a test. If its positive, take it from there. Negative, move on.

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If this was me I would get my pregnancy confirmed and then tell him you were pregnant but don't expect much from him as far as parental and I'd just have him sign away his rights to the child.... sounds like he just wanted a fling and just doesn't care even to let you down nicely. Grab onto your boot straps and move on. Do what is good for you and the baby. Which is leave him in the one night stand.

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Yeah, he's right Tinder or any social dating site like that is,  but you tell him that he might be a father soon so don't wuss out yet.  2, it's he's fault for not being completely forward with & telling what he wanted from you instead of leading you on.  1 hour is not going to kill no one for a long distance relationship,  it's not like he lives in India or somewhere. Df 😑

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He didn't say any of these things to you when he was banging your brains out so why should you let it go. If your pregnant tell his ass because he was there banging you so tell him to shut it and be a man.

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If you aren't pregnant, let him go. He doesn't use to & too right anyway. Prayers for you.

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Just be honest with him. If you arnt pregnant move on. If you are hopefully he will take care of his responsibility. And honestly if you met this guy on tinder I don't think you should expect much no offense.

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Overreacting to what?? He's a dirt bag that used you. Always go with your gut. It never lies.

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