Was I raped?
I recently lost my virginity to a friend during a little gathering we were having. We were all drinking and I got so drunk I started to hit on him. Things only progressed from there and the next morning I found out I was no longer a virgin. The night it happened he was also drunk, so I don’t think he raped me, but he remembered enough to tell me what happened. I’m not mad at him at all for it; I never placed a large value on my virginity, and I wasn’t saving myself on marriage or anything. I told him I wasn’t and we cleared the air. I’m only curious about the technicality of the situation since he was aware enough to know how it started, and progressed, and ended, whereas I only have a small memory of him on top of me and noises coming from both of us.
Lemme know what you think please.