Me and this guy have been seeing each other on and off for a year. When we first started talking I was so shy and a virgin and we didn't do anything for the 6 straight months we were together. During our time apart I finally lost my virginity and we've since had sex too. Lately I've been trying to be more seductive/suggestive. I've sent him 2 texts that would have excited most guys but his responses have been disappointing.

First, I got drunk for the first time and drunk texted him. Some context I was hormonal already and this guy at the club was all on me. Rather than giving in and going home with him, I texted "bae" to show him how much I wanted him and only him. No response.

Then I sent him a video of me playing with my tits (and I have great tits) he didn't even respond...again.

I'm so disappointed, like I know he's attracted to me and he genuinely likes me but he never texts me anymore unless I text first and he doesn't tease me or flirt back when I text him risqué stuff. I told him I feel like he's not into me anymore and he insists he is and in person things are great. I just wish he wanted me as much as the thirsty men in my DM's do.

Am I doing something wrong? I might not have the flattest stomach or fattest ass but i would like to believe I'm pretty damn attractive. Like I said, when we together he's smitten but he's not giving me any type of attention when we're apart and we're apart quite often since I'm in law school and he's got a job. Idk should I just let it go and move on?

UPDATE

Damn y'all ain't even hesitate to say he's not attracted to me. 😅 When we FaceTime and meet in person he's so into me (and we just generally have a good connection). But imma take yalls word and just not text him first or try to be cute for him. And if we do hang not do anything sexual with him till he shows that he wants me. If he doesn't shit a girl's got options 🤷🏾‍♀️