Baby Shower Problems


Sorry if I posted in wrong room, okay so my friends want to through me a shower, but want my husband to pay for the center, and help with food and other items. he say he'll pay for the center, but not anything else, because that's something they decided to do for me on their own. so my question is who right or wrong? I'm a FTM and I'm new to this and I feel like I'm in the middle. I'm to the point where I'm like f@#k it, they stressing me out