How do I tame this?!

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Help! I've dealt with a lions mane for my whole life and it's always been ridiculous to manage. It's thick and curly and frizzy all the time. Not to mention I have dandruff like crazy because this Wisconsin winter has not been nice to my scalp.

I know getting a trim will help with the ends, I'm trying to grow it out from a bob I had in 2016.

I don't mind the curls as long as I'm able to manage them. A lot of the time I'll just straighten it or put it in a pony and say to hell with it.

Help me!