Should I tell her? 😳

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My fiancés best friend was dating this girl for a little over 6 months and we became good friends. She told me they never used condoms, and doesn't know that he has herpes. I want to tell her she needs to get checked out but at the same time I feel like it isn't my place to say anything. Opinions?

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I know you're torn about it but this is how things keep spreading. Think about it like this: Would you want someone telling you if you were in her situation? I sure would.

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Personally if I knew this I would say something. It's very low of that man to go ahead and have sex with her with out telling her first, especially considering he didn't think using a condom was important! I'm sure people will also say that the girl decided it was ok without a condom & it's partly her fault to, etc.. But if he knowingly has herpes he should've mentioned it beforehand! I understand the situation you're in & it's a difficult one. But honestly, even with it not being your place to say I think you should say something. I mean if it was the other way around you'd want to know right? Goodluck with this hun! 🌻

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I would consult with him first and suggest that he's tells her himself.

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Eeeek! You must tell her.

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Wait, they are not together? And you haven't told her? Please tell her. That's her health you are messing with and if she did get it from him she will give it to someone else. Wrong on so many levels.

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I would tell her, that's so wrong that he hasn't told her already especially since they are having unprotected sex.

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I'd def say something if he wont

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