So.. i got married in May. And basically as soon as we got married, he started to become emotionally abusive. I can’t say i was clueless to this before getting married, i knew he had controlling ways. But now it’s like he wants to control every aspect of my life. How i do my makeup, how i fold my laundry, how i load the dishwasher, the clothes i buy... and i feel so lost and like such a failure. I’m only 23 and I’ve ruined my entire life. I’ve expressed the idea of spending time apart a few times and he starts saying he can’t live without me, if i leave he’ll die, he wishes he was dead... and it scares me into staying. Can anyone just give me some advice as to how to go about leaving??