Am I over thinking the situation??

Question

Sometimes you want to feel loved/special and just not say anything about it..but just wanting it to happen, right? If you see them like once or twice a week because of how busy you both are, wouldn’t you want at least a phone call, FaceTime just to see and hear how your doing? Not just boring’ol text “wyd” “that’s good” “okay.” 
Just feel like my bf isn’t paying attention to me or just getting over me, even if he says so other wise. Action speak louder than words. I’ve told him before and all I get is the I love you card..but nothing changes. 
Should I say something again ? Should I just drop it and move on?

Answer

I have felt the same way, don’t worry. I’m sure the man loves you as much as you love him. He probably has a lot going on and a busy schedule. Try taking time either every night or day or whenever it’s best for the both of you to talk on the phone. It’s always better to talk on the phone rather than text when you guys can’t be together in person. It really help just to end the night with a call from him, trust me. My boyfriend and I try to talk on the phone every night when we can and it’s helped us feel more connected even when we can’t be together. I hope everything gets better! And if you want to feel more loved without telling him, I’m sorry but some men are so oblivious! Try telling him again maybe he will get the gist of it. Communication plays a big role in a healthy relationship as every person says. Good luck!

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I. Agree. To all of this. Try calling more, voice to voice to fill the blanks of texting cause reading things is different to having the context. I feel like that's helped me a lot since i don't get to see him often or get to text often.

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For the most part, you are overthinking cause i know i do. Gotta have good faith, babe. That and to focus more on what you need done than to rely on his imput.

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Oh, but darling, don't be afraid to have time to yourself! Like a small break from the relationship (not break up, not "break," but like half the day, a couple hours). Distance makes the heart grow fonder and it'll give more to talk about.

Am I over thinking the situation??

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