They don t understand the feeling of losing a child you never got to meet yet they feel they can tell me I'm being too anxious, stop over reacting, you can't control this etc. it's starting to really annoy me because they don t understand how it feels but they are trying to tell me how to feel. My husband doesn't get how I feel either to an extent because although he went through the miscarriage with me, he didn't do it through my body. He didn't feel every symptom, every pinch and pain. He DOESNT feel What's going on in my body this current pregnancy, every day I feel multiple cramps and it makes me feel like it's happening again. no one gets how infuriating it is to not have any control over something that if it happens it will completely break you. I'm constantly fighting against my anxiety but being pregnant after an unexplained MC is the scariest thing I've ever done.