My stepkids came to live with us for good!

They have a "drama mother" kept up so much in our marriage. My husband has cheated on me with her before. She is always taking them out of his life and bring them back. Everything is on her terms. One year "I don't want my kids there" another year its "they on they way". She has no respect for me at all. My husband and I have no kids together but I had a son before we met. So looks like TTC is on hold once again.