So I recently was going through my husbands followers on his real estate business account and saw he started following girls he used to talk to. He had deleted these girls on his personal page in the beginning of our relationship because it had bothered me when he would like pictures of other girls. Now before you ladies come to his defense I would like you to know that he consistently goes through my instagram, texts, emails, and Facebook, questioning everything I do. He unfollows males from my instagram page even celebrities! He’s the only man I’ve EVER been with so it’s a little different. So we have this understanding not to do anything that could potentially hurt the other person. When I asked him about it, he got very defensive and said that these girls are potential clients who make a lot of money and will need a house one day.

Now.. I am four months pregnant with our first child. I understand that I am extra emotional these days but I can not get over it. The double standard is what hurts the most.

It’s been three days and we haven’t talked since. I don’t want an apology (although it would be nice) but, I would like an acknowledgment that his judgement and rationalization was a bit off key.

What should I do? Am I making too much of this?