hi everyone,

this is a long long story im so sorry. my husband and i have been married for 5 years and befor he used to give it to me all the time it was almost every day and the start of this year it became only once a month and sometimes not even that, idk whats wroung with him or me i may have gained alil weight but i see weman on here that say that that makes sex better for them, he has been tho alil stress from losing a job but he has gotten a new job its a good one he seems happy now but he still isnt in the mood for sex but when i use our computer i find well art porn o hin it and i know it isnt mine cuz i don't masterbate , and he always tells me that he is working on fixing the problem but i dont even know what that problem is,it has been a very long long time since we had sex and im just so sexually frustrated it isnt even funny but he seems just fine? it confuses me so much...would anyone know what might be wroung or how i could calmly talk to him about it, or sonething els that might help.