I have a very lovely girlfriend and We have been having a sex life for about 4 months now my girlfriend has orgasmed a lot but when she try’s to do it to me I just can’t seem to climax sometimes I can’t even feel anything she’s tried fingering and a strap on but I still can’t.

I do masterbate usually after she try’s or Looking at her picture and I always orgasim just not with her

My friend suggested a vibrater or a “wand” any one have this problem? How did you fix it

how can my girlfriend give me an orgasim?