mil is trying to talk my partner into leaving me!!!!!!!!!!

she absolutely hates me and wants him to have nothing to do with me..her reasons are the following(I said what happened plus what she thinks by saying so that means): 1. I am struggling to find a job atm so that means I am using him 2. I want kids so that means I am tricking him into having them now (I tell him i want us to own a house and or have a big savings) 3. I used his Facebook to talk to his family when they would ignore his calls (he has forgiven me and understands) so that means I lie to him all the time 4. I got bapisted for her and everything but i don't read the bible stoll or pray often so that means I am an atheist 5. my partner had to work and wasnt able to attend his sisters wedding this past weekend so that means I am the blame for that cause she didnt invite me so i didn't let him come 6. we moved 12 hours away from her so we can be away from her so that means I dont respect her.... she is also wanting him to.come back to the old province we lived in to get away from me like she wants to come here and take all his shit and him with her..when he doesnt pick up the phone she threaten so call the cops and when we forst moved out here so illegally got my dads number and was threatening him saying he kidnapped my partner and all this stuff and then proceeded to tell i am a terrible daughter and this is all my fault.