No baby

Monica
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for almost a year!!! I take more of a natural approach, if it happens it happens I don't buy kits or anything but I really am starting to get depressed more and more especially when my period arrives!! I have 2 kids 11 and 8 and I was on the pill for 7 years, my periods are normal I'm just depressed ready to give up anyone else in the same boat!??? I feel myself getting angry with my husband and its straining our marriage all coming from my end!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrr
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Ke

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You don't want to try a kit?

Ma

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Maybe you could find a way to try but still make it fun? Sometimes we play see how many times we can have sex in a week, and even though we're exhausted we do it to try and beat our last month's score. Or make bets on ovulation test results or something. That way you're trying a little more but still keeping things light and fun. Just a thought!

Va

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Stop trying. Seriously. That's when it happens. Stress seriously impacts the ability to conceive. We have been ttc for a year and a half with no luck. I was told that I don't ovulate anymore due to a damaged ovary. When we stopped worrying about it and thinking about it all the time, boom. BFP. Did not see it coming. 

Va

Valerie • Jun 19, 2015
Remember that no matter what is preventing this from happening right now, this is not your fault and it is not your husband's fault. It is so easy get angry with the other, but that only makes it worse. We've been there, we know it's so hard to go through.

Mo

Monica • Jun 19, 2015
thanks for the reply, i need to stop stressing hopefully our time will come soon thanks again

Ha

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Me and my hubby have the same thoughts if it happens it happens, and have been doing so for three years. Im 27 and hes 3I, I also have an 8 yr old from a previous relationship. he's got baby fever so bad and has said he wants to take the next steps to make sure it happens, But i dont want that to turn out to be stressful. we're open and talk about it often and we still decided to leave it in God's hands, all you can do is step back and make sure u guys are on the same page and Stay positive. dont give up were still going strong after so long u can too.Good luck :)