SO YALL, LEMME TELL YOU.

my boyfriend has this friend, lol. dont get me wrong i am perfectly okay with friends of the opposite sex, plus i’m not his mother i cant tell him who he can/cannot be friends with.

anyway, as i was saying one day he was using my phone charger and i went to check his percentage bc i really needed my own charger. this boy fought his phone out of my hand, and when he did i caught a glimpse of a text from someone .. we’ll call her “V” anyway, as i was saying. later on i called him out ab his text and he was like “oh thats v” so im wondering like, oh when you meet her? this guy said, “we started talking a couple days ago. i was wondering when/if/how i should tell you”

FIRST, why do u have to wonder if you should tell me and then be afraid to? just tell me you have a friend, thats okay i have friends.

and i pointed out that it made me a little sketch so i asked questions about her. asked if she ever flirted with him and he said “yeah, she’s called me cute. just like every other girl ive talked to”

digging himself deeper. i was pissed and wow. anyway, days went on and it got to where he was texting her in the middle of hanging out with me. we could be just finishing sex and if he has a message from her, he’s replying before he even replies to his mom or bestfriend.

this stuff really started to bother me so i pointed these things out to him, and his responses were basically anything “you, you, you” to put fault on me and make me seem crazy. anyway, i thought this girl had went away but i picked up his phone the other day to take pictures on it (i like leaving him pictures of me in his phone) i open it up to see her. i wasnt snooping, like he locked his phone on their messages. her. he was on vacation with me and they’re just texting away while we were out shopping/eating. and it just annoyed me because its like i can never get time with him anymore bc he’s always on his phone and when i glance at his phone, he’s always talking to her!

HAVE FRIENDS BUT AT LEAST MAKE SOME TIME FOR YOUR GIRLFRIEND!!!