I have a 5 year old step son. and a 19 month old daughter. I want to have one more. While my husband is completely on board. Everyone else is NOT! So it makes me keep having doubts and some fears of having a 2 or 2 and a half year old and a new born. everyone keeps saying "You will regret it" "Your daughter will hate you cause she won't understand why you are giving attention to a new baby" like really???? and "You won't be able to handle 2 under 2" one person even told me "Are you trying to go crazy?" so of course it put fear in me about it. Me and my husband think we will be fine and we want to finish our family so we don't have young babies in our 40s or 50s. (its perfectly fine to do that we just prefer not to) so I'm wondering if there are any moms out there who can give me good advice on having my next baby close to my baby girl? I need so hope right about now. 😢💔