My husband and I are coping differently. I just want to hide from everyone (except him) and he’s been trying to reach out to his best friend for the past week, who keeps ignoring him.

He’s done this a bunch before, and I know he’s dealing with a lot at the moment, but it’s so hard to watch my husband go through not only our miscarriage, but being completely ghosted by his best friend. His friend has been posting on social media though, so Im assuming everything’s ok with him. We never told him we were pregnant, and he doesn’t know about the M/C yet so it’s not like he’s avoiding him because it’s awkward or anything. I should also add all of us involved are 30 give or take a year, and this just feels really juvenile and wrong.

Any advice on how you’d handle this?