Divorce Advice

I’m posting anonymously because I will be honest I don’t want my other posts to be judged based on this question.

How hard is divorce? The technical aspect. The property (shared title on a financed vehicle, bank account, apartment), the name changes, etc

Sometimes I feel like I’m hanging on due to fear of how inconvenient the divorce itself would be.

Money isn’t the issue as I’m the sole earner, it’s just the process itself.

I’m happy most days and I love him dearly plus he’s the only father my son has ever known. (Not biological.)

I want to make things work but I also want to know how complicated a divorce is if I decide my family is better off separated.

Help please.