My husband I met in high school, started dating when I was 15, got married when I was 21, now I am 24.

I have changed so much since then, i have dreams that I didn’t once have, so does he. We both seem to have different paths that we think are best for ourselves. I feel that “compromise” comes down to one of us giving up our dream. That would not be good in the long run. It could lead to resentment, etc.

Maybe I “grew” out of this. I went from being a young teen to young adult to adult. All while together

Divorce is on the mind. Maybe I am longing to live a life of independency.

Can you all understand where I am coming from? Have you been in a situation like this? Any advice? What should I do?