Foreplay?

Question

Sorry this is going to be a little TMI but I am so confused. So to start off I am a virgin, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and he went down on me and fingered me but I don’t know how to explain it, it just didn’t feel as good as I thought it would. I could feel it but I obviously didn’t reach an orgasm from it. Is that abnormal? What should I do? Thank you

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I remember when my ex would finger me, it just felt weird and awkward. But the first time, at the time boyfriend now husband fingered me it was the best thing ever. Even to this day he knows exactly what I like. It just takes the person to kinda get to know your spots and vice versa. But you should also try fingering your self, that way you can explore what you like and get to know your own spots to communicate that to him.

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The technique needs to be just right for you. Each woman likes something a little different. If you know what you like, gently guide him in getting you there. Soft suggestions ( higher up etc) or more subtle things like when it’s good being more vocal. You can also move you a little bit until it’s just right. If you don’t know what you like, I suggest doing some solo explorations. You can’t help him if you don’t know what you like. And also, give it Time. It could be you were too nervous or you were overthinking and not feeling. I have the bad habit of chasing it off lol.

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That’s normal. I don’t orgasm from fingering and being eaten out, I’m actually not a massive fan of fingering...it’s not painful, just not pleasurable for me.

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it's totally normal just everyone is different I couldn't reach one at first but with time I could

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This is very normal and you're no longer a virgin  sex is sex.

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