I am in a dv relationship. I am at the point where he act as if he is the king of the castle. When I buy groceries, he eat it in front of me without offering any to me. He doesn't care if I eat a meal or not unless he run out of food. He's like, well what are you going to eat? Then, he try to manipulate me in to having sex with him, after I told him no. He spit on me when I don't want to go out with him. He test me to see if I will cheat on him, by having his out of state peers text me. They send a random text like, sorry, I ran in to a friend on the subway. They ask me questions like, what do you look for in a man? Then, when my husband come home all texting stop, or they text things like, the government has a new money program, call this number to claim your free money. His phone ring in the middle of the night then he delete the call history. He spit on baby clothes that I bought for someone's baby shower. When I step out of the room, he snoop through my phone. When he is in public, he speak loud causing many people to like him. He talk loud in public about my personal business, embarrassing me. He try to force me to buy unnecessary things for him, after I told him no. He only brought me two things during the entire relationship. I went in to debt buying him things he should be buying for himself. He would not get a job to help pay the debt. He had to be forced by the government to get employment. He made plans to spend his money on him guy friends. He tell other women on the internet that they are sexy. If I look at my phone and smile, he get upset and say you act like your talking to someone you like. He flirt with women. Then, when they flirt back he tell me she tried to come on to me. He brought his ex-girlfriend to his place and allowed her to lay in his bed with sexy clothes on for a month. Then, he tells me if I see you and your ex walking together I'm going to beat both of you up. He ask me if he could have sex with my relative. He told me that I could join. I told him no. He thinks he's a famous person that came back to life reincarnated. I told him that I was a famous person that came back to life, and he never said it again. We have good moments. When we watch movies about Jesus Christ. When we read the Bible together. I stop going to church with him because he flirt with the women in church. Then, when they walk up to him to give him a hug, he treat them harshly. It was embarrassing for me to whiteness that. When he had discussions with the guys at church, they offered to help him with his talents. They were supportive although my husband decided to talk about embarrassing topics instead, and tried to convince them to agree. Which they didn't. They gave him helpful advice. My husband and his friend started to go to another church together to chase after females. They would get together to talk about which churches to go to. They go to a house Bible study to look a the daughter's butt. The daughter is beginning to like my husband. One day, my husband assaulted me. I went to the hospital. He went to the house Bible study. When I came home, he told me that he was out with friends driving in a car.