My SO and I aren't married yet but I've know him and his four boys for the last four years now. I am absolutely in love with him and the boys. Together we have nine kids. He has a daughter by a woman who isn't very stable mentally (I'm not being mean she actually has some issues). She took off from Ohio to Texas where she is from for another man, he doesn't have a problem with that but that he can't see his daughter. He and I have only been together since April and he hasn't seen his daughter in almost 3 months. Now his daughter's mom is trying to cause problems between us by stirring up shit with his ex wife and her brother. She's been saying I'm pregnant, which isn't true we're waiting to try. But it's so stressful that she tries to start shit. Ugh! I wish there was a way to make her grow up!