before you judge please bare with me as I will try my best to explain the situation , giving full details would take too long but I'll try my best to explain.. my so and I haven't spoken in a week , and by haven't spoken I mean he has stopped texting /calling or responding to any of my attempts to reach him. This was done without warning or an explanation over a simple disagreement. I'm not surprised as he s done this before whenever we have any type of disagreement he couldn't handle, because as he says it's how he copes with things so he just shuts me out for however long he feels appropriate. Longest was 3 weeks. And that was the last time about a year ago. he promised he wouldn't do it again as he saw how much it messes with my head and How much it hurts me and yet here we are again. the day after he stopped replying I found out I am pregnant, I have tried to reach him by text and calls with no success. I didn't mention the baby in the text because I just think it's something that should be spoken about. at this point I feel as if this is just another form of abuse/control and I don't know that I want my child around someone like that but at the same time I think he has a right to know. So I am torn , do I even tell him or not? Since he basically single handedly decided to basically just abandon me whenever he s displeased . i don't want my child to have to deal with that also..