3 years in and I know my boyfriend is down for anything that's important to me... over a year ago he asked if marriage was important to me and I said yes but mentioned that I didn't think our relationship was nearly stable enough for me to feel comfortable considering it at the time. Fast forward to today, I'm 100% sure and ready, and also don't really care about letting him decide how, when, and with what we get engaged (he's much more comfortable making decisions together). So now I'm curious, if the ball is in my court, what should I do with it??? please share thoughts & experiences. How did you guys decide you wanted to marry?!