My ex fiance and I became friends again a little over a year ago and he asked me if I still wanted a baby. At that time I wasn't sure, but after thinking about it I said yes. He agreed to try, but it was only 1x during my fertile week and only for a couple months. To me that was never trying and that broke my heart. Why would you ask that knowing that was something I wanted so bad? I feel it was just to tease me & get my hopes up for nothing. Now that I'm going to turn 44 I don't want to try anymore and I have been open to him about this. His response was "I already made the decision that we weren't trying anymore anyhow." 1. I'm glad we discussed it and 2. I already decided that I was too old anyhow. How would you feel? Does it seem like he just tried to get my hopes up for nothing?