Bf situation - unsure whether I’m taking things the wrong way

I’ve been with my boyfriend for more than two years now, and everything has been going good up until recently. I’m unsure whether it’s me thinking otherwise, so I’m asking for clarification on this.

He told me today that I can’t have lunch with my father because he doesn’t trust my dad, so, I stayed home and ate. He always rolls his eyes and groans when my mother comes around and after she leaves, he always says that the things she says pisses him off when she’s obviously playing around. When I’m out at a friends place, sleeping over, he gets upset and says that I should be home at a specific time (usually when he gets home from work) so he can spend time with me. When he promises to spend time, he invites a friend over or plays games and ignores me completely.

I’m unsure, I could be taking it all the wrong way but, please educate me and give me advice, please and thank you.