My SO and I have been ttc for a little over a year now. He is a marine so we have never really been able to time it perfectly, on when to bd, because I’m not always able to be with him at the times I am ovulating. We have been talking about it a lot recently, and have decided we were going to try using preseed for the first time and actually tracking my ovulation. He gets three days off next weekend (sat-Monday) and I am expected to ovulate that Monday. I usually ovulate a day before glow says I am supposed to. The problem that I am having is my 21st birthday will be that Thursday and I really want to be able to enjoy it with him and friends, but I also know that it’s not advised to drink while ttc, as it can lower your chances, if I’m correct? WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK I SHOULD DO! We’ve been praying for this for so long, and just knowing that we are finally getting the chance to actually have a chance at conceiving has me so anxious.