A year ago I had been diagnosed in a prestage of cervical cancer. They told me that if I wanted children I had to consider this in the upcoming years. I spoke to my ex who I had been with on and off with for 14 years we always talked even when we weren’t together but we hadn’t been together for 2 years although we did have sex with one another occasionally. He agreed on having kids with me because that was something he always wanted he lives on the other side of the country due to his study so I only saw him during the weekend. I’m 8 months pregnant now and yesterday he told me that he has a child that’s a year old. He didn’t want to tell me because he knew that I didn’t want to have kids with him and that I would regret this. He has been living with her and the child for 7 months now and has withheld this from me during my whole pregnancy. I feel so depressed because in my view he took a choice from me if he would have been honest from the start I could have made my own decision but he made this choice for me and now I’m tied to him for the rest of my life. I told him we’re over but that it wouldn’t be fair to keep him from his child. I’ve decided to let him watch her and build something with her during one day a week in which his only objective is to care for her and create a bond. He doesn’t understand and feels he has done nothing wrong and wants me to meet the other woman and child. He told me that he will always love me and that we always wanted children together. I told him yes but not like this, told him he was crazy and that he would only get that one day with her and that our lives will be lived separately. Not only has he messed with my future but also that of an innocent child. What are your views on this?