Last November I had an ectopic with my boyfriend, I was devastated.. So was he. He had mention he wanted me to get an abortion.. I said no I could NEVER do that. When we find out it was ectopic he said it was his fault because he wanted it to die in the first place.

Now that we know I'm pregnant again I ask him how he feels he tells me I don't want to know. That we aren't ready. (I can tell he feels the same as he did with the other one). I said my views haven't changed and either you're with me through this.. Or I'm gone. He told me to stay.

He doesn't want to go to my first appointment or ultra sound. I feel like I can't talk to him.

Anyone else been in this situation? I'm really high risk and so scared.