Me and my fiancé have known each other for about a year and a half. Started dating back in October of 2016 and kept breaking up and getting back together until May of 2017 came around and that’s when we finally decided to try things out this time. My daughter and I moved in with him in June and literally lived the most perfect life. We all had to move out by the end of August per his landlord (he only gave us 10 days) so we moved into my moms. Things weren’t the best but we managed to make it through. I found out I was pregnant the end of September after 3 months of trying because it was what we wanted. November 4th, he proposed to me and I thought things were going to be a happily ever after but I was wrong. We fought and broke up more being engaged than we did just being in a relationship. So he moved back in with his mom around thanksgiving. Still we’re together. He lost his job in December and since then I would stay at his house for a week at a time with my daughter, go home for a few days and then go back. This went on until the end of February when he left for Colorado. I knew him going to CO was the worst thing he could have done. It literally ruined our relationship. I don’t trust the people he was with at all. Well he met a girl up there (me having no idea). I told him he needed to come home because I was at risk for preterm labor so he packed up and left. When he got home, I noticed there was this girl in his phone with a kissy face and I asked him about her. He said they were just friends and he known her for years. Well I finally got the truth out of him. He said he’s just using her and doesn’t actually plan on dating her. But yet wants to go back to Colorado every other weekend to visit her. He told me we were not together. He keeps kissing me and telling me he loves me. He even offered to buy me a house so the girls and I had a steady place to live and that he’d pay for everything bill wise. Told me he’d take care of me and would def make sure the girls were taken care of. He said he’d be away for work and would come home and stay with me and still sleep with me and all that (even if he was in another relationship). He even told me who knows, things may change and I may change my mind about not wanting to be together. I’m so confused and literally don’t know what to say or do. I’ve been staying with him since he got home. This girl knows about me tho and always tells him to call her when he’s not around me. It’s honestly taking everything in me to not message this girl!

*side note...he said I pushed him away and that he wants to be single for awhile to get his mind straight”