Part 1: The Background

My husband and I have been TTC for almost a year now. I got off birth control (after using it for about 10 years) in June 2017 thinking that it would just happen (WRONG). The only thing happening was my cycle kept getting longer and longer. Meaning that we spent lots of $$$ on pregnancy tests waiting for a BFP. I set up time with my doctor and she recommended downloading an app or two to start tracking BBT and my cycle. I tried for a few months and still nothing. I called my doctor again when my cycle was still getting longer each time and she said we had to make sure I was ovulating. So then I was using two apps and ovulation tests. Turns out - I do ovulate but I never register a “peak” day.

Part 2: This Current Weirs Cycle

Fast forward to this cycle. I’m currently on day 58. No BFPs. Only BFNs. This is currently my longest cycle - last cycle was 56 days BUT I ovulated 10 days later last cycle vs. this cycle. Another weird thing about this cycle is the symptoms I’m experiencing/not experiencing.

NOT EXPERIENCING: painful breasts, period cramps, acne like I normally do before my period. No implantation bleeding.

EXPERIENCING: tender hard breasts, sporadically large amounts of clear discharge, light pain/discomfort in lower abdomen (center and on my sides), nausea (not vomiting), some dizziness, light infrequent cramping in lower back, and I get full really fast when eating and bloat a lot.

My body doesn’t even feel like my period is about to start. It feels different. I haven’t had alcohol in over 2 weeks (even though I could definitely use a drink or 5). I’m calling the doctor on Monday but I had to see if there was anyone out there who had any ideas.

Any thoughts, help, and prayers are extremely appreciated! Thank you to everyone who took the time to read through this. Baby dust to you all! 🙏🙏❤️❤️

Advise please..