announcing to the wicked witch of the West Rant

I am visiting my home town soon and will be announcing my pregnancy to my grandma. But honestly I'm not excited to tell her and dont really want to. My husband is deployed first off so she will probably have aome snarky comment regarding him not being there for me. I also have PCOS so I'm really paranoid of having a miscarriage, especailly because I'm positive she will say something awful to me. But if I do not tell her (I am telling the world that weekend as well) then she will cry and tell evryone how awful I am and how I do not love her. Even though she plays this card of "oh poor me" she wont take the time to visit the baby after its born. Not because she doesn't have money or because she cant travel, its simply because Hawaii and Nevada and her million other vacations are too important... Rant over