me and my boyfriend haven’t used condoms for five months now (we’re both regularly tested). we’re not trying but we say if it happens, it happens. well this is our first month that we’ve stopped smoking weed. and i know people say that can affect conception but my sister got pregnant twice while she was a chronic smoker. yesterday during sex, i some pain (it felt like a stretched pony tail) and idk whether that’s from recently not having much sex or what), and there was A LOT (and I mean a lot) of white cm from me. and ive been peeing a lot but still feel like i need to pee right after, im craving slightly different things, and my breasts are sore (i usually get this during pms though), im just starting to feel hopeless, because although we’re not “trying”, i feel incompetent.