So with my family -their thing is one baby shower per mom no matter the age difference/gender. My friends wanted to throw me a party but with their budgets they can’t. It’s been five years having my son and this little one will be a girl in September. I have absolutely nothing that I’m thinking about having a sprinkle shower or a baby shower with just friends and a few family members who I talk to on a daily basis. I’m torn — baby sprinkle or baby shower???? I love planning these things on my own w having help w food.... my mom has already said she will have nothing to do w and my mil/side said send them an invite.... I just want to cry!!!!!