He and I have been together for almost three years and he’s always been the more settled down type. Despite this, in the last few weeks it’s been different..

He is 24 and has started going to bed at 9:00.. he wakes up for work at 8.. and is off by 1. He works from his boss’s home selling antiques online.. he still lives at home and has no desire to move out.

He doesn’t ever really want to go out or do anything adventurous and when I suggest things he always says “whatever you want to do” and that gets exhausting always being the one to have to make the plans. On top of that, he also isn’t done with his bachelors.. he just finished his AA.

I’m just worried if I’m a distraction to his life. Idk if I’m stalling him and keeping him from growing. We can’t travel yet because I live at home, I’m 21 but moving out this year, and it’s my parents rule - dumb I know. But I have 2 jobs and work my ass off and have my ambitions.. idk if he has that.

Idk.. does any of this sound weird to you?