Can anyone relate to this?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He has a nice family and always act happy to see me and put on a smile. This weekend I flew up (long distance) to attend his formal. I stayed at his apartment for two nights and then the last night we stayed at his parents house. After spending 24 hours with them I just felt weird... after thinking about this I realized his family didn’t ask how the formal was, how my family is, how college is going for me, about my graduation or anything that wasn’t about them and their business. Please don’t take this as snobby and me wanting to talk about myself but I have had so many accomplishments and great things happen since I last saw them 4 months ago. I just don’t get how they couldn’t ask me about my life and care about me. I didn’t tell my boyfriend this obviously since I love him but I’m starting to feel very uncomfortable around his parents where clearly they don’t care about me. Also a sidenote in the beginning of the relationship is was like this too but I didn’t let it bother me since I was nervous and honestly didn’t have much going on during high school. Does anyone else feel like their bf’s or husbands parents don’t care??? I know when my bf is at my house my mom and even my dad care soo soo much about him and ask about his family I just hate how it’s not the same for me.