Okay here’s the deal. I’m a lesbian, and I’m not ever going to be in a situation where I can get pregnant with the girl I love.

My best friend, a guy who I’ve known for almost 6 years offered to be my donor. I wasn’t expecting that and it literally made me cry. (My gf can’t get pregnant so I have to be).

We’re going to legally do everything right, so the kid is taken care of and my wife and I have all the rights to the child.

Getting a sperm donor is thousands of dollars. We can’t ever adopt (for many reasons), and I really think this is our only shot.

I don’t think this would mess up my relationship with my best friend, but I know it would change it in some ways, and I don’t want it to hurt more than help.

Thoughts??