Have you apologized even though he should be the one apologizing??

We’ve been married for 6 years and he is great when things are good, but if something happens then ... IT’S THE END OF THE WORLD!!!! Any other husband like this one?? Ugh!

Anyways he went to work and finished early.. which I thought he would but then went to play golf.... never texted me or anything!! Meanwhile I’m gone cleaning thinking he is working until later. ( you should know I don’t mind him playing golf, or doing whatever he likes when he is off. I’m pretty much let him do whatever he wants when he is off because I know he works a lot and it’s always stressed. we don’t have kids so he does the things he likes. Hunting, fishing, golf.) all I ask is to let me know what he is up to so I can plan around it too. Anyways he calls me to go to dinner which I was all happy until I find out he was playing golf and was too busy to cal or text! He said he was really busy and didn’t have time! Well he could’ve call when he was driving to the golf course!

Anyways I’m 😤 pissed! And don’t go to dinner with him. He says sorry, how would you like me to handle it next time!? I said call or text me!! Anyways he then gets mad because I’m mad..... well then 3 days of him ignoring me until I apologized today.... but now I’m not even pissed about the no call or text but about him ignoring me for 3 days until I apologized. As soon as I did he was fine! But then I was not!!! What the heck? He should be the one apologizing.. I know I overreacted but ignoring me so I had to apologize it’s sooo annoying! He knows I just hate being mad at each other and him ignoring me like that. It hurts and it affects me... then I just keep all this I side of me.....