help needed!!!

Neve

sorry this is so long - i’m so emotional rn and i just need some guidance. so let’s start with the basics...

i am 14, female and bisexual. i also happen to have a crush on my best friend - only problem is, i don’t know if she likes girls.

i was at a sleepover last night with said crush and 4 other close mates ant we were playing truths. i am out so they asked me what gender my current crush was and i said “girl”. cue gasps and my best mates trying to cluedo who i liked😂. i didn’t want to say too much because my crush was RIGHT THERE. one of my mates is really good at seeing into like the depths of people’s souls and shit and she instantly knew but she promised not to tell.

so the night goes on and more and more clues are being revealed. i have an issue with knowing where to stop when it comes to personal information (years of insecurity and wanting to be wanted) and everyone was making jokes about who it could be from this one class but the only person i know in that class was my crush🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

so i’m taking a wild guess and saying they know. the hardest part was that my crush didn’t even look at me for the rest of the time we were at the house. she hasn’t texted me either.

i honestly just want to tell her that even saying that she doesn’t like girls at all would be better than blanking me and leaving me not knowing. i thought she’d been giving me signs that she liked me recently but who knows anymore🤷🏼‍♀️. i don’t want to lose her from my life.

any advice on how to handle the situation would be so amazing and appreciated xx

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Ca

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Just tell her. Even if she doesn’t like girls, at least she will know you like her so you can move on together in the least hurtful way.