Why doesn’t my husband....

Think about helping me? Why doesn’t he offer to go with me wherever I’m going? Why doesn’t he get off his video games and pay attention to me for once? Why doesn’t he thank me for grocery shopping alone 9 months pregnant rather than complain I forgot something? Why? Why? Why? Why does he think his days are harder than mine? I work like he does and when I come home I still work but not him he just sits there and makes a mess while I pick up after him. Why can’t he understand me when I express how I feel to him? Why doesn’t he care? Why do I love him but he makes me feel depressed? Why do I feel alone even though he’s here? Why don’t I feel hopeful of change with a baby due in a couple days? Can somebody tell me why?😔