HELP A GIRL OUT!

Payton

Soooo me and my boyfriend have been talking about trying anal...well we tried it today and two strokes in it hurt I couldnt take it i feel like it’s because we only put lube on him and not me orrrr not enough on him, also he tried to like put all of him inside at once which I know wasn’t smart lol and explained to him after that if we try again to go slower so it wouldn’t hurt so bad... i dont can you girls help me with some tips we are just trying something new and trying to spice our sex life up and need some help lol💛