I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and we have been thinking about getting married he wants to get married next year which I think that's a good idea but I'm going to be 24 next year he will be 20 next year and I don't think work I don't think we're financially in ready I mean today tomorrow or the next day any day but I want to get married in a church even though I really don't believe in it but or a beach or in the summertime when it gets hot