SHOULD I BE WORRIED???

Hi. I am on Sprintec l and I take it every day. I started my pills on February 26th, which is when Is supposed to be ovulating. I am on them to prevent PMDD and so I did not want to wait for my next period. I took my pills perfectly on week one. On week 2 of my pills I took the pills a 9 hours late on day 2 and I took them a 7 hours late on day 3. Every other day that week was on time. The last remote opportunity for sperm to enter my vagina was the first day of week 3 I touched my bare vagina just a little bit after touching outside of my bfs boxers, which felt a little moist (this was after he had ejaculated). I also touched my vagina from outside of my clothes when I was giving my bf a handjob. I was turned on and so my shorts and underwear we're moist. On day 2 of week 3 I took the pill an hour hours late. Every time we did mutual masturbation after that, I made sure we both washed our hands really well after he ejaculated and/or we took a break in between sessions of touching him, then me. We have never had sex and his bare penis has never been anywhere near my bare vagina. Yet, I am really worried I got pregnant. On week 4, day 3 (I take the pill nonstops) 9 days after that happened, my boyfriend was fingering me but that started to hurt, so then he switched to fingering my bum which we did without any sort of lubricant and we did it for maybe 10-15 minutes. My bum hurt a little bit, but we kept switching it up a little so it didn't hurt as much. After we were done with that I went to the bathroom, wiped, and saw that what I wiped was ever so slightly pink. I of course freaked out so I wiped again and there was nothing. Then I wiped just my Vagina and it was normal, then just my bum and there seemed to be the ever so faintest trace of blood possible. I talked to my boyfriend afterwards and he said while he was fingering my butt he thought he felt poop or something as it got a little wet he was doing it, then he thought it was just sweat. However, when he cleaned his hands, he said he saw no blood. When I got home, a few hours later, I wiped again and there was the smallest amount of pink. On week 4 day 7 I woke up to take my pills, thought I missed one, panicked, and took two to make up for my lost time. Turns out I took an extra pill that day, throwing my whole thing ahead by one day. Then, on day 6 of week 5 I took my pill 17 hours late. The next day I noticed pink discharge in my panties. that progressed to spotting. I have been spotting for 12 days now, including the pink discharge. I have passed huge clots and small firm clots. Ever since taking 2 pills at once, my timing on the pills has varied by as much as 5 hours. Am I dumb for worrying about pregnancy? I know I'm likely not, I just need reassurance.