How to get with a guy at my gym?

Question

I’m a senior in a smaller university and I consistently go to the gym around the same time almost every day. There’s this guy with his group of friends who are always there. I have a huge crush on him but it’s mildly intimidating to approach him in front of a group of bulked guys. I’ve caught him looking at me sometimes.
I am well aware that I have resting bitch face but let me tell you that I’m not kidding when I say his is worse than mine.
What are some ways that I can work on my unapproachable body language and make it clear that I’m interested in him?
I fear rejection or else I’d walk right up to him and start a conversation. I can’t even think of a topic to discuss with him. Maybe ask him to spot me? Or who knows.
Please help me.

Answer

Do this!!!   When you have tue chance... when he is in the group of friends, just walk up and through the group while only making eye contact with him. If you bump anyone, ignore it. Just solely focus on him. Maybe even stop right in front of him just for a second and DON'T SAY ANYTHING! Then go back to your workout and ignore any comments and gestures. If he comes up and talks to you then go with it. If not, now you know.

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I mean..smiling is the easiest way to eliminate a resting bitch face lol. Just a small smile, not a huge cheesy one, next time you see him looking at you.
You can also just keep trying to make eye contact. Like be more obvious about it. I think people normally have an urge to look at someone after they make eye contact because they want to see if they're still looking. So if you make eye contact once, he'll probably want to look again and you just gotta make sure that you're looking at him when he does. I mean you could be super obvious about it and like literally turn your head back and look if your back is to him. Or get closer to him and then make eye contact.
Idk tbh I haven't been single in like 5 years so I could be talking out of my ass but these are all the things that I would try if I were interested in someone and was scared to approach him.
You should definitely let me know if you try these things and if they work or not lol. Good luck!

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Smile and be friendly the next time you catch him looking at you. Don’t be afraid to say hello. What’s the worst that could happen?? Go for it.

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Haha I'm in pretty close to the exact situation. But he iniated small talk with me first. I had seen him around for almost a year, but didn't think anything of him. One day, we were the only two in the weight room and he just started small talk (which I considered a miracle since I have bitch face as well as the reddest and sweatiest face ever after a workout). Then whenever I saw him next, he was wincing from an injury and stretching and I would ask if he was ok. After 5 weeks of small talking, I introduced myself since it seemed he wasn't going to lol we still chat but I'm leaving up to him to initiate more because it feels like he's just not into me the way I thought. 
Sooo, I'd say just find ways to be working out around him. Find something to make small talk about, for me it how too many people were in the gym that day or how warm it finally was in the room. If guys are interested, they're going to find a way to chat with you. Make yourself physically available and be friendly, but I have yet to have a guy ask for my number at the gym. . . 🤷‍♀️

How to get with a guy at my gym?

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